Why the small things make or break a great sit.
House sitting relies on mutual responsibility It is a trust-based arrangement, not a free holiday and not a free service. When etiquette slips, sits become difficult, pets may suffer, and everyone walks away feeling unhappy.
Here’s what good house sitting etiquette actually looks like.
Communication is not optional
Clear, timely communication sets the tone for the entire sit.
Sitters should respond promptly, confirm arrival and departure times, and raise questions early.
Homeowners should acknowledge applications, be upfront about expectations, and provide clear instructions before they leave.
Silence creates anxiety. Communication builds confidence.
Respect the home
This is someone’s home, not short-term accommodation.
Sitters should treat the property with care, leave it clean, and report any issues honestly.
Homeowners should leave the home clean, make space for the sitter, and ensure basic maintenance is taken care of.
Respect shows in the details.
Pets always come first
If the pets aren’t the priority, the sit shouldn’t proceed.
Sitters should follow routines, administer care as agreed, and provide updates, especially if something seems wrong.
Homeowners should be honest about behaviour, health needs, and provide written instructions and emergency contacts.
There should be no surprises
Boundaries matter
Healthy boundaries protect everyone.
Sitters should not assume visitors, extra pets, or changes to routines are acceptable unless agreed in advance.
Homeowners should avoid micromanaging and trust the sitter they have chosen.
Trust only works when boundaries are respected.
Reviews should be fair
Reviews are not a weapon. They are a record.
They should be factual, calm, and respectful. Future members rely on them to make informed decisions.
Good house sitting etiquette is not complicated. It’s about communication, respect, honesty, and accountability.
When both sitters and homeowners get the basics right. Pets stay happy. Homes are cared for. Trust is maintained. That’s the standard worth protecting.